Different Features of Parenting and Employment

It makes a certain amount of theoretical sense, and, yes, you’re off-base on this. First, parents (or other guardians) have a joint full responsibility for the child. If they agree on a 50-50 split, and one of them (for any reason) does only 25 percent of the work at a given time, the other one can’t just stand back and say, “I’m doing my 50 percent.” The _work_ may be split 50-50, but the _responsibility_ is split 100-100. I just don’t see it making sense, socially, legally, or in any other real-world way, for an employer to be in a position to say, “Yes, your child has a high fever, but we think your spouse should take a sick day instead, so the kid’s just going to have to sit home alone and uncared for.”

That brings me to the second part, which is the extraordinarily offensive notion that employers should be able to micromanage their employees’ lives for maximum business convenience. Would you have to keep a log of child care activities to prove that you and your spouse shared the work equally? Bring it up to some kind of corporate hearing board in case of disputes? Sick leave and other forms of time off are specifically designated for illness of self or other family members. For employers to pass judgment on which family members should be allowed to take time off for bona fide illness at the very best invites a counterproductive bureaucratic mess. Thinking in such narrow, ompartmentalized terms is, btw, traditionally considered a male, “rational” activity. Determine what the childcare jobs portion is. Even if the employee IS divorced, suppose part of the responsibility of the non-custodial spouse involves helping out the custodial one if the kid is sick, so that one person doesn’t have to miss work all the time.

Minimum Wage going up — What Good will it does?

I agree that it would not help the workers much because the cost of living goes up even if they get no raise.  So it goes up but they are now paying more, by the time the minimum wage is increased in 2007 they will be paying double at gas tanks, for rent, for CDs, and whatnot. To really make an impact they would have to earn at least $15.00 per hour for normal full time jobs. The salary for childcare jobs also increases.

The cost of employment is passed on to the consumer in the price of the product. The higher the price they less they sell, causing layoffs.  And let us say you worked in a factor for ten years and got pay promotions and are now earning ten bucks and hour, after starting off at $5 or S5 per hour.  Suddenly we have a minimum wage hike, so a new hire is now making $7 or $8 per hr and you still get only $10. Then the chain reaction cost of living goes up, putting you into a low earner bracket, and you are added to the list of working poor people who can no longer make ends meet (as before). Then you would get mad and demand also a higher wage, and up the ladder it goes.


The Children’s Defense Fund

America’s workers are paying continuously rising costs for goods and services, yet those who earn very low wages have gone seven years with no action by Congress to raise the minimum wage and help them meet those costs.  For too many working families a full-time job does not provide enough money to support a family.  Raising the minimum wage would increase families’ ability to pay for child care, housing, food and medicine.

However, the Republicans will likely offer an alternative amendment with a lesser increase in the minimum wage of around $6.25 tied to provisions that will undermine worker protections.  An increase to $6.25 would help 4.1 million workers, 3.3 million fewer than the Democratic proposal.

A fair increase in the minimum wage is long overdue.  It’s been seven years since the nation’s lowest paid workers have had a raise. Congress should act as quickly as possible to pass a minimum wage increase that reflects the losses suffered as the result of seven years of inaction.

Opponents routinely argue that minimum wage increases cause job losses. The empirical minimum wage research solidly rejects this hypothesis and proves that childcare jobs did not fall when Congress enacted previous minimum wage increases in the 1990s.

Taxes, Child Support, and Child Care

I’m not sure if the original question was whether the child care (daycare) expenses could get deducted or whether the childcare exemption could be claimed.  If the latter, unless the CP has authorized the NCP to claim the child in writing (I believe it has to be a special IRS form), then the CP is the only one who can claim the exemption.  However, if you were discussing deduction of daycare expenses, I would be interested in any info about the NCP being able to take any deductions.  This is the first I’ve heard of the NCP being given any tax credits on childcare jobs/support expenses

I felt the child support also included childcare and therefore the ex should be able to share the deduction, but it’s not so. I quit asking when the child reached the age of no childcare needed. The person who can claim the child care credit has to be the person with whom the child lives with most of the year, which in most cases is the CP.  It doesn’t matter a hoot in hell whether the NCP provides more than 1/2 of the support or not (which is usually the determining factor in awarding deductions and exemptions).  In fact, the CP doesn’t have to prove he/she spent one damned dime on the kids during the year; only if he/she can prove the child lived with them for more than 1/2 of the year.

Face it, the NCP is screwed when it comes to the tax laws, because not only can’t they claim the child care credit, they cannot take the earned income credit or claim head of household.  And in many instances they pay over 1/2 of the support of PROVIDING a household!

Child Workers Face Scrutiny of their Past

Anyone applying for paid or volunteer work with children in NSW will have their lives scrutinized under new employment screening rules. About 100,000 people will be subject to the rules, which are believed to be a world first. They will apply not only to teachers and child-care workers, but also to school bus drivers, football coaches and school gardeners who have unsupervised contact with children. Under the two-tier system, no-one convicted of a sexual assault or child abuse crime carrying a penalty of 12 months or more will be allowed to work with children, whether paid or as a volunteer.

But those who have had only apprehended violence orders taken out against them, criminal charges dropped, or disciplinary procedures at work laid against them for physical, sexual or emotional abuse of children, will be assessed for childcare jobs. Their chances of a job will depend on the detail of their case and the position they apply for. Existing employees will not have to undergo these checks unless they change jobs.

Working at a Daycare with your Child

Started working outside the home in late February, after spending nearly 11 months home with my son.  I had worked in several different child care environments in my ten years of professional childcare job before I had my son, so I knew what to expect in terms of child care work. Here’s what I’ve found to be the pros and cons; other’s experiences may vary: Pros:

I’ve also worked in many centers where mothers had children there, and it was often difficult for older children to stay in their own classroom and follow the rules of the teachers in charge; this was especially true when their parents owned the center. Older children often “team split” in an effort to get what they want by pulling mom over to their side against the teacher. As my son gets older, I will make it clear to him that his teacher makes the rules in his/her classroom and that unless there’s truly a dangerous or unfair practice happening, I’m staying out of it.  As a teacher, it was very annoying to have a co-worker trying to mediate for their child and over-ruling my authority.

Health and Child Care at the FBI

At FBI Headquarters in Washington, D.C., the Health Care Programs Unit (HCPU) is staffed with experienced health professionals and specialty support staff who provide many services for all employees. The FBI’s occupational health staff provides assessment and treatment of work- related injuries and illnesses, health counseling as needed, referral service to physicians or hospitals, and emergency response in the clinic and throughout the building. The HCPU also offers travel immunizations to employees, immunization injections to at-risk personnel, and health screenings for cholesterol, hypertension, and diabetes. Additionally, since prevention of illness is important, educational classes are provided on health and safety issues such as basic cardiac support and first aid, weight reduction, smoking cessation, back care, safety in the work place, health issues concerning men and women, proper nutrition, and other areas of concern.

Employees assigned to the FBI Academy or one of the 56 FBI field offices is offered similar facilities. The FBI addresses the need for child care through maintenance of listings or resources throughout the country. Employees assigned to FBIHQ have access to “Just Us Kids,” a child development center sponsored by the Department of Justice. Employee Assistance Program (EAP): The FBI offers an EAP because we recognize that our people are our most valuable resource. Simply based upon the nature of our work, employment with the FBI can, at times, be very stressful and make the demands of balancing work and family especially challenging. The EAP is a voluntary program which offers assessment, referral, and short-term counseling services to FBI employees and their immediate family members who could benefit from assistance in dealing with a personal issue. The EAP can assist with problems that include, but are not limited to, stress, marital/family problems, mental and/or emotional issues, alcoholism, drug abuse, and financial concerns. The EAP is a confidential program that is protected by federal department provides concern on childcare jobs.

Who Protects the Parents?

The UK law provides a lot of protection for parents. People working with children are not allowed to examine children physically, or to take them to the doctor without parental consent. If a child comes into a setting with bruising, the first action of the nursery worker should be to talk to the parents about it. This is done partly to protect the worker – it has been known for parents to accuse workers of bruising their child, when the bruise was an old one acquired elsewhere. It is also done out of concern and interest in the child, and should not be threatening to the parent.

A worker should never ‘accuse’ a parent of abusing a child on the strength of a few bruises alone. All children get bruised, as you say, in play, in accidents etc. What we would look for is a combination of changes in behavior, changes in health and wellbeing, things children say about home life, a child’s general development, how happy the child seems, as well as injuries that are difficult to explain. We all know the types of bruising that children get during play - grazed knees, bumped heads, and grazed hands. Other parts of the body are less likely – although not impossible – to bruise accidentally.

Please don’t imagine that ‘no one knows’ about the boundaries between child abuse and discipline. Some of us spend our careers studying and discussing these very things!  There is plenty of support and information out there. Your local college may run basic childcare courses which will give you a grounding in child development, behavior management etc. Simply talking to other parents helps a lot, too – you share ideas and support each other.

Childcare jobs do not change rapidly, as you fear – children are just the same now as they always have been!  However, you can certainly get the impression that it does, when you ask various people for advice. Some will advise smacking, others will say never smack and still others will have some other method for bringing up children.

Child Care and Parental Responsibilities

I am a private***registered*** FAMILY child care provider (NOT corporate)and have been for 18 years. I have been fingerprinted…. screened…..had a state and federal background check (every 5 years), spent many hours and LOTS of dollars on childcare courses, gone through the child abuse registry and still continue my education in workshops. My daycare parents recommend me highly to other clients and I am referred by Family and Children Services. I do family child care because I want to be able to offer the kind of care for children as I would want for my own. Family child care is VERY different from providers in corporate centers where I have worked where children have been herded like cattle…..

I have to disagree with your comment about “no one being more patient with children than their parents.” I have had many children in my care who hated to go home in the afternoons because of both parents being so tired after work and not having any patience with them once they were home…I have seen many destructive patterns there.  I have heard parents say how they spank their child to “get the child to leave them alone” when all the child wanted was some well-deserved quality time.

We also know registered/licensed family childcare jobs providers in the country and around the world who do wonderful, commendable “jobs” as “second parents” offering kindness, love, patience and understanding…some of the kids we care for only get that compassion while in OUR care. I do family child care because I LOVE children and so do my other friends who provide family child care…

Qualifications Required for Childcare Jobs

Many states and centers require a four-year degree in education for childcare jobs, or if not in that field, plenty of non-credit coursework and experience in addition. The government requires a Bachelor of Arts degree in ECE, sometimes a Master’s degree, but they’ll accept other degrees as long as you’ve got equivalent training and experience. All places, I think, should require at least two years of experience in a licensed facility, if not more in a supervisory /management role, before an individual is qualified to lead a center as a director.

While there are usually two requirements (training and experience), in addition to a criminal background check and pre-employment physical, one must remember that the salary and wonderful working conditions are not the reasons we go into child care.  As long as child care remains in at the tail end of the chain, we’ll never be truly respected as educators (“babysitter” is the phrase most of us hear, no matter how educated we are) or properly compensated for all the work we do to ensure children have a good start in life. Most of us go into child care or education because we love children. So as long as you remember that, and the salary and the crack comments don’t bother you, go for it.  There’s nothing quite like a child’s smile.  :)