Do Boys Ever Think They’re Ready for Kids?

On top of that, a recent NPR program described a case where a group of boys is regularly asked to spend a portion of each week taking care of small babies. He announcer also mentioned that the boys now look forward to it. Unfortunately, I don’t have any more details on this, but it certainly sounds good. Indeed, very good!  Those boys can now go out and get babysitting jobs or childcare jobs, moving in on the girls who monopolize it, and preparing themselves to be involved fathers.

Except that the current monopoly will work very hard to keep them off “their turf”. As does any monopoly which is threatened.  Those boys are probably less likely to be afraid of, or threatened by, babies. However, they may be more aware of the responsibilities of: kids. In practice you probably need to convince the parents (especially mothers), who are the people who select babysitters… Chances are that if you are human, you have been babysat before.

Different Features of Parenting and Employment

It makes a certain amount of theoretical sense, and, yes, you’re off-base on this. First, parents (or other guardians) have a joint full responsibility for the child. If they agree on a 50-50 split, and one of them (for any reason) does only 25 percent of the work at a given time, the other one can’t just stand back and say, “I’m doing my 50 percent.” The _work_ may be split 50-50, but the _responsibility_ is split 100-100. I just don’t see it making sense, socially, legally, or in any other real-world way, for an employer to be in a position to say, “Yes, your child has a high fever, but we think your spouse should take a sick day instead, so the kid’s just going to have to sit home alone and uncared for.”

That brings me to the second part, which is the extraordinarily offensive notion that employers should be able to micromanage their employees’ lives for maximum business convenience. Would you have to keep a log of child care activities to prove that you and your spouse shared the work equally? Bring it up to some kind of corporate hearing board in case of disputes? Sick leave and other forms of time off are specifically designated for illness of self or other family members. For employers to pass judgment on which family members should be allowed to take time off for bona fide illness at the very best invites a counterproductive bureaucratic mess. Thinking in such narrow, ompartmentalized terms is, btw, traditionally considered a male, “rational” activity. Determine what the childcare jobs portion is. Even if the employee IS divorced, suppose part of the responsibility of the non-custodial spouse involves helping out the custodial one if the kid is sick, so that one person doesn’t have to miss work all the time.

Future Day Care Dilemma

As a child-care provider, I would not have a problem being video-taped, but only if I were informed that it might be happening. I would be very uncomfortable if I were to find out later that it had happened and lose my respect and trust for my employer and probably leave the position that may have otherwise been a good match for each of us.

Not because I would be afraid of a video showing any neglect of the kids, but because when I`m alone in a home with small children, I tend to behave more like I would in my own home when I assume I have privacy. Stupid personal things like, unbuttoning my pants if I have a tummy ache, leaving the bathroom door open, licking bowls, nose-picking- I`m not saying I act like a slob when the kids are around, or even very often,  but when they are napping and I`m occupied with other things I feel more “free

The children`s safety is much more important that embarrassment issues of the provider, I still stand by my opinion. It seems like a huge lack of respect that wouldn`t be tolerated in other employment situations- I know childcare jobs is different from other employment, but providers still deserve some respect.  I don`t know how other providers feel, that’s just me.  If I was ever in the situation of needing a childcare provider I would likely try to find the resources to tape her, but treat her as I would like to be treated.  Of course before anyone was hired references would be thoroughly checked and I`d want to observe her interaction with my kids.

Childcare Providers Stung By ERB

Child care providers want the Government to change the Employment Relations Bill – and National has promised to fight to get them excluded from the Bill, Opposition Industrial Relations spokesperson Max Bradford said today. ”Providers of home based child care are calling on the Government to exclude them from the dependent contractor provisions in the Bill. “But so far the Government has turned a deaf ear. National will ensure the Government gets the message of concern. ”We are getting extensive feedback from our 40,000 plus mail out of a flyer on the Employment Relations Bill and it isn’t only small business who is worried about the impact on their livelihoods.

The New Zealand Childcare Association represents key providers of home-based child care around the country. ”The Association is worried about the viability of the service, for staff, for careers and for the families they provide services for if the Bill turns the careers into employees. “There are real fears that the chartered home based organizations won’t be able to meet the extra compliance costs attached to losing the contracting arrangement and services will have to close. ”And there’s concern about the impact of the personal liability provisions on parents who take an active role in Childcare job centers c. “Barbados and foster parents are two other providers of services that could be hit by the dependent contracting provision in the Bill.”


Child Care and Development Fund

The major regulatory decisions were made to assure States have adequate information upon which to base their child care payments; promote public involvement in the Plan process; strengthen health and safety in child care by requiring children receiving CCDF subsidies to be age-appropriately immunized; require coordination between childcare jobs Lead Agencies and agencies administering TANF, health, education and employment programs; streamline the CCDF application and Plan; and provide clarifications based on experience operating both the CCDBG program and the now-repealed title IV-A programs.

We received relatively few comments during the comment period–only some 160 organizations and individuals made approximately 500 comments, many of which were duplicative. The content of the comments lead us to believe that we achieved our goal of reaching balance among viewpoints. We made only a few changes as a result of comments to adjust the balance among goals. Of the substantive changes made, we require the Lead Agency to make available to the public, in advance of the public hearing, the plan it proposes to submit to the Secretary. We require the Lead Agency to provide consumer education information to parents and the general public about health and safety requirements and about the full range of providers available to families. We clarified that an independent audit of a Lead Agency shall be conducted by a State agency that meets the generally accepted government auditing standards or by a public accountant who meets the independence standards contained therein.

CHILD CARE AND EDUCATION RESPONSIBILITIES TO MERGE IN POLICY MOVE

Policies for day care and education for children under eight are to be merged under one Government department. The Department for Education and Employment will take on responsibility, from the Department of Health, for day care, including the regulation of nurseries and child minders. The policy transfer will not directly alter the work of local education and social services departments.

Placing responsibility for day care, early year’s education, out of school clubs and holiday play schemes under one roof will end division and inconsistency. And it will help foster growth and development of services needed by young children and their families. It makes sense for department to take over these policies, especially as it will take forward the National Childcare Strategy.

Policy responsibilities moving to the Department for Education and Employment are: day care provision, local authority reviews and reports on services for under registration, regulation and inspection of day care, nurseries, childcare jobs and child minders

Mom’s Title

For mother no qualifications are required to get the job and no one interviews you beforehand to check that you are suitable for the position. This ‘anyone can do it’ degrades motherhood from the word go. Well, it’s true – anyone CAN do it…but not everyone can do a GOOD job of it. Personally I would like to see our government introduce voluntary courses in childcare aspects such as nutrition, discipline, morality, mental and physical development – with attendance/passing exams bringing a recognized qualification.

Not only would this elevate the status of the mother (or father…I suppose we oughtn’t be sexist!) involved but it would hopefully improve parenting abilities across the board (we all have something to learn!). OK, so I know that here in the UK there ARE childcare jobs, and various levels of qualification in say, child psychology – but these courses are designed to lead to a ‘traditional’ career in the chosen subject rather than be accessible to/ designed especially for the role of parent.

Research on the Pros and Cons of Non-Parental Childcare

There are lot things to think about when it comes to choosing child care. Our children mean the world to us. I agree with most of the posts found in this string; even though most contradict each other. That is because child care is a very personal choice. It would be wrong for me to tell you that center or home based care would be bad for a child. Nor, would I feel right about working mothers were bad or stay home mothers are bad for their children. These are choices we often are a little unsure of how to choose.

I looked for child care that I could feel comfortable with and found non affordable. So, I started my own home child care. After years of home childcare jobs training, becoming accredited by the National Association for Home Child Care (NAHCC), and more — I have thought long and hard about how I would choose child care. Beyond the need for quality child care there are two things that are important to me.

Going Rate for Teen Sitters

I can respond to this (having been a teenage sitter not so terribly long ago, and underpaying sitters being one of my major peeves).  $5 is *not* unreasonable in many areas for a sitter.  On the subject of MacDonalds, most McD’s don’t pay minimum wage – they pay in the $5 range per hour as well.  Yes, you have to get yourself there – but you get company with other teens and occasional breaks.

Now I don’t really care what the relationship of the two is – it’s irrelevant. When you pay for a sitter, you should know what you are paying for.  When you pay someone less than minimum wage, you are telling them a. that you don’t value their time enough to pay even what is federally mandated and 2.

Now maybe all the sitter is going to do is sit and watch The Lion King - maybe, but maybe not.  Before I was sixteen, in the *many* childcare jobs I had, I had – taken four kids on public transportation to museums, zoos and parks; taken a child to the ER for stitches, performed CPR on a child who had a (previously unknown) anaphylactic reaction, dealt iwht a rapidly rising temperature (normal to 104 in under two hours!), cleaned up vomit repeatedly, stayed overnight with a group of children whose mother never came home. And gone through three changes of clothing while giving three kids (2 -5) their baths.